When shame crumbled and support took its place: a family’s true journey

Last night, Emily went to the school house with a canned aspect. Already have your mochila next to the door and it was paired with Mark in the kitchen, with frozen dishes and a DVD of a film in hand.

Sonrió shyly. “Oye, Em. He said we heard very well. Thought we could see a movie together. And quiz… Can you tell us how this works? Para no volver a meter la pata”.

Our eyes will be sheltered from here to there and they will be suavizaron. “En serio?”

—De verdad —dijo—. We don’t have to worry about anything at this house. También es tuya.

She sounded between the grimas and the strong abrazó. “Gracias, papa”.

And first of all, you will feel lighter. The silence that one hears from us turns into noise; inconveniences, sí, but reales.

During the next few weeks, we always changed in our family. Los chicos dejaron de bromear. Mark was more attentive, including the record that Emily learned about her useful studies before the school. La basura del baño era solo… basura: sin vergüenza, sin susurros.

One night, I arrived at Emily, told me in your voice: “Mamá, ya no me siento rara. I’m here… normal. As if pudiera ser yo misma”.

Se llenaron los ojos de lágrimas al besarla en la frente. “Lo eres, cariño. Siempre loFUste”.

At this time, I must know that the change does not occur with it, but it does not come with understanding. A veces, the vergüenza es solo ignorance disfrazada de miedo. If we infringe with empathy, we despair.

We become a perfect family from night to night. Hubo moments inconveniences, some of the inconveniences that require a correction with delicadeza. Then we will learn, together.

At night, when you encounter Mark llenando the bathtub with pillows and thermal pillows, you can’t avoid sounding.

I saw me constantly and I saw people. “Dijiste apoyo antes que silence, ¿verdad?”

“It’s good,” I said suavely.

Emily’s bag is covered by the pasillo, light and without cargo.

And at this moment, I tell you that we only need to create it.
All our habits are also crecido.