They seem grateful, always willing to help, always ready to act immediately… Yet, something doesn’t add up. An inner voice whispers a warning. What if this person isn’t as sincere as they seem? In a world that values authenticity, hidden intentions aren’t always easily revealed. However, they can still cause concern. Here are four common rules to keep in mind to avoid falling into the trap of superficial relationships.
1. Their help is never definitive (even if it seems so).
We all know someone who offers help… but deep down, they’re looking for something in return. Recognition, favors, or even a compliment. These people, beneath a veneer of generosity, are actually driven by their own self-interest. Their motivation? To be recognized, admired, and valued. Their hospitality often lacks sincerity . And when they don’t get what they want, they suddenly disappear or become indifferent. Sincere help, on the other hand, requires transparency. It’s simply offered, without expecting anything in return.
