Old age is a time of wisdom, rest, and reflection, but it can also bring certain habits or behaviors that, while common, are annoying or uncomfortable for those around you. The strangest thing is that everyone notices them… but no one dares to tell you. Here are 12 of those unpleasant things you might be doing without realizing it.

1. Complaining all the time

Pain, illness, or simply bodily changes can make you feel uncomfortable, but constantly complaining can push others away. Being positive, as much as possible, helps maintain good relationships.

2. Repeating the same stories

It’s normal to have cherished memories, but repeating the same anecdote over and over can tire your listeners. Vary your conversations and listen to others as well.

3. To interrupt or to lecture

Many older adults feel the need to constantly correct or advise others. Even with good intentions, it can sometimes be perceived as scolding or constant criticism.

4. Not accepting help

Refusing help out of pride can jeopardize your safety and frustrate your loved ones. Accepting support doesn’t make you weak, it makes you wise.

5. Neglecting your personal hygiene

Some people neglect their personal hygiene without realizing it. Cleanliness is important not only for health, but also out of respect for oneself and others.

6. Criticizing the new generations

Labeling everything modern as “bad” or “ridiculous” creates distance. Listening and trying to understand current changes can bring you closer to your children or grandchildren.

7. Being too pessimistic