A question of culture… and humanity
In many families, a time of reflection is also a moment of gathering, solidarity, and passing on traditions. But this closeness should never become an obligation to speak. Being present is not about explaining, fixing, or consoling at all costs. It’s simply about accompanying.
It is important to remember that what remains long in the memory of a bereaved person is not the perfect phrases, but the attitude, respect and sincerity felt.
When in doubt, simplicity remains the best ally.
If you don’t know what to say, it’s often a sign that you’re paying attention. And that’s already a lot. A simple “I’m thinking of you,” a brief message, or even just “I’m here” is more than enough.
In these sensitive moments, the greatest proof of care is not finding the right words… but daring to be present with kindness and sincere support .
