The daughter may prefer to spend time in her room or outside the home to minimize contact. This distancing is not only limited to physical space but also to emotional space, where the daughter may appear indifferent or apathetic toward her mother’s feelings or problems. This defense mechanism serves as a form of self-protection to avoid reliving past traumas or facing painful emotions related to the relationship.
2. Minimal or Superficial Communication
When a daughter feels resentment, communication with her mother may become mechanical or superficial, focusing on neutral topics such as the weather, everyday events, or basic needs, avoiding any topics that might trigger deeper emotions or arguments.
This limitation in communication prevents a genuine connection, leaving little room for empathy, understanding, or emotional support. The daughter may feel that opening up or sharing her true feelings could be futile or even counterproductive, leading her to maintain a facade of indifference to protect her vulnerability.
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